Pandemic Fatigue: Care for HSPs
Who is feeling pandemic fatigue? At this time are many months into the pandemic and I know that many people are experiencing pandemic fatigue.
I want to both normalize your emotions and provide some resources that might help. First of all, most everyone has had some kind of meltdown or experienced an emotional rollercoaster. Times aren't "normal" so it's unlikely we will feel "normal".
One of the biggest things we can do is continue to show ourselves self-compassion and let ourselves feel what we feel while being gentle, and loving, and patient with ourselves.
Some HSPs Shared Their Pandemic Fatigue…
Thank you for this, Julie. I'm really struggling with having everyone endlessly in the house needing me. I'm enjoying mindful walks and savoring quiet moments when I can. Thank you for the reminder that it's ok to feel stressed during these stressful times!
Thank you Julie! For me it was difficult to explain to my husband and sons what I really wanted was spending a few days alone, but it is was worth "overcoming the guilt". I know I'll be much better company for everyone thanks to this break! (I also feel very lucky that it is possible!). Sometimes...often to be honest- I need to push myself to do what I know is right for me...what helps me then is to imagine what I would encourage a friend to do - and that way the choice seems more obvious :)
My experience has been on the other side! :) Too much alone time. It has been just me and my dog in this house for months and months and months on end with very little happening of the life I was engaged in before the Pandemic. I’m an introvert, obvi, but I would still be able to go sit at the local coffeehouse, meet some friends, go over to my friend’s house for holiday meals, all of those little human touchpoints. I’m mentally strong, resilient, and have great coping skills but I too want to acknowledge with all of us here how difficult it really is and stand supportingly with everyone that is feeling the impact in their own unique way.
Thank you Julie, that does help. I use my tools most of the time, but like everyone else, I really miss socializing and doing activities of my choice.
Want to share your experiences in the comments below?
Here Are Resources That Might Help
Here’s a compilation of episodes fromThe HSP Podcast as well as recommended blog posts offering tips during the pandemic and meditations for the sensitive to help you feel less stressed and calmer.
Support for highly sensitive people during this pandemic
What’s Hard and What’s Helping During This Pandemic
Pandemic Self Care: with Julie and Willow
Optimizing Health as an HSP during Coronavirus with Julie Bjelland and Dr. Julia Hipp
How To Deal With Anxiety While Navigating Chaos And Uncertainty with Sukie Baxter
Recognizing the importance and value of our high sensory abilities during a global pandemic with Julie Bjelland & Willow McIntosh
Our Challenges Shape Our Purpose with Julie & Willow
Why Self-Care isn't Cutting it During this Pandemic with Jodi Aman
How to manage intense stress and anxiety right now as a sensitive person
Be careful about how much news you’re taking in
How to manage intense stress and anxiety right now as a sensitive person
Growth Through Suffering
Hope in Crisis
Accessing Resiliency: Helping Yourself & the World When You Are Needed Most with Willow McIntosh & Julie Bjelland
Reflection and Growth Opportunity
How HSPs Are Staying Resilient
Also, here are some blog posts recommend
10 Ways Highly Sensitive People Can Reduce Their Fear During the Coronavirus Pandemic. Read here.
It’s OK if You Aren’t Ok Sometimes, but here are some tools that help.
Explore Meditations for the Sensitive
Here’s a list of some of the meditations I’ve created for you! Explore them all here.
Episode 107: Grounding Meditation
Episode 103: Self-Love, Self Honoring Meditation
Episode 87: Meditation to Restore
Episode 77: Seeking Peace: A Meditation for the Busy Mind
Episode 74: Sleep Meditation Listening to Water in a Stream
Episode 70: Meditation for Intense Feelings
Episode 69: Ocean Time Meditation
Episode 68: Forest Bathing Meditation
Episode 65: Meditation for Deep Feelers
Episode 62: Meditation for Emotional Wounding
Episode 53: Meditation for Exhaustion or Irritability
Episode 51: Guiding You Into Sleep
Episode 50: Deep Sleep Meditation
Episode 43: 10 Minute Relaxation Meditation
Episode 38: End of Day Relaxation Meditation: Bath and Candles
Episode 37: Letting Go Meditation: Opening Up a New Path
Episode 36: Loving-Kindness Meditation to Self and to All
Episode 23: Body Scan Meditation for the Sensitive
Episode 17: Breathe Awareness Meditation
Episode 16: Relaxation Meditation by Julie Bjelland
Episode 15: Relax with the Beautiful Sound of Birds
Episode 10: Self-Esteem Building Relaxation for the Sensitive
Episode 09: Lovingkindness Meditation for Highly Sensitive People
Episode 08: Relaxation & Body Tension Release for the Sensitive
Episode 07: Meditation for Highly Sensitive People
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